Love to be loved…

Disclaimer: Too mushy for the weak hearted! Stop reading now if you are allergic to love!

Sugar n Spice all things nice!

How do we know we are made for each other!?
It is just the smallest things he/she does for you with love….

Being a woman, if I expect something, my other half goes a small step further to fulfill those and when I think he is not expecting anything back, frankly he is….all the time….

When we were courting, I know he used to wait for my call as much as I did for him to ring the door bell! If I was to attend a family function, I wouldn’t care how I’d look, but on our dates I’d take hours to get dressed!
He’d not bother if he was driving over drainages, bridges, passing his favourite eating joint or met with his best friend who loves onions on the way, but would end up always smelling great!!
Thankfully, he is not fond of ice-creams and I am not even a distant fan of chocolate, so we never argue over it ever, but when it came to our favourite piece of chicken, he’d always make it a mission to sacrifice the last bite for me! He wouldn’t show it on his face, but he’d love to listen his name 100 times if I’d say it a 100 times!! I thought of him as a soldier or a bodyguard when walking in a crowd with him, he’d always have those hovering eyes to protect me and yet have the most fragile smile when I’d look at him and smile. He’d always drool at me in his mind when I’d talk to someone else and flutter eyelids, move my hands too many times or keep touching my hair purposely to grab his attention! He would notice all the little things I did for him, changing my earrings, matching the outfit I’d wear, even the craziest hairdo would be appreciated even if I was having a hideous hair day! Holding my sweaty hands was the most daring thing for him to do, but he never made a disgusted face, instead kept using his hankie more than he ever did for himself! He’d wipe my hands and smile…..
He wants to see me happy always, and wants to fight with everything that makes me cry. When he sees a happy couple, he wants to imagine us instead of them laughing away, looking deep in each other’s eyes. He wants to whisper those sweet nothings, wants to blabber about our future but would rather keep it to himself and keep saying ditto in his mind when I express the same thoughts! A single rose says it all, you don’t always need diamonds and pearls!

Cream on Coffee

Post marriage those small things may change because you are together now unlike weekends, you are with each other 24/7, you wake up next to the same person you dreamed about every night! But still he does those small little things like when he says You are beautiful, you just feel at the top of the world! When he cleans up the kitchen counter after I mess it up, when he calls me to check if I had lunch, when he wants me to wear his favourite dress, when he makes a pact of buying veggies, throwing the garbage and dividing other such household responsibilities, when he surprises me with a movie ticket, letting me sleep for those extra two minutes, you just know how lucky you are!A friend kept complaining how her husband has changed after marriage, but she did not notice, how she stopped looking at herself in the mirror! When I made her realize that you can’t keep crying over the partner changing after marriage, it’s marriage that changed you, she couldn’t stop crying! We just take our spouses for granted! But the Love never changes, its still there! May be playing a little hide and seek, but it’s your turn to find it!

Frost on cake!

Here’s wishing all the people in love and all those still looking for it, and to my dear husband a very Happy Valentine’s Day!

P.S : I have always maintained and I think it is true that Valentines day is celebrated for Love, the feeling….not just for a couple….so would also like to wish a Happy Valentine’s day to all my loved ones!

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11 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Palasha
    Feb 14, 2012 @ 20:22:34

    Love itttt… ur a super star writer… love love love love loveeeeee you .. nice write up 🙂 ❤

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  2. Sonal Ranka
    Feb 14, 2012 @ 21:25:57

    very nice one !!

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  3. ankit sharma
    Feb 15, 2012 @ 10:13:58

    awesome one Poornimaaaaaa……… loved it to the core……….

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  4. Priyanka
    Feb 15, 2012 @ 10:50:18

    Hey Poo..sweaty hands thing- applies here too !

    Reply

  5. Rishi
    Feb 15, 2012 @ 13:42:04

    Lovely!

    Reply

  6. poohalicious
    Feb 15, 2012 @ 20:54:39

    Thank you Palasha.super star writer feels great!!!
    Sonal – Thank you dear for reading!

    Reply

  7. Anubhuti Sharma
    Feb 15, 2012 @ 22:08:54

    I dunt think thrz anyone who doesn’t believe in love or mushy stuff.. ya d degree of both may be different but d feeling is always thr.. So um sure ppl who alergic to or shud i say not very open bout thr feeling for love or ppl in doubt wud ‘Fall in Love all over agn’..

    A big Applause for d feelings dat came out as words n trust me i luvd it soo much tht saying amazing or commendable will be mere words.. U write frm d heart n thts d best part.. looking fwd to more posts.. Keep writing..!! Loadsa love 🙂

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    • poohalicious
      Feb 15, 2012 @ 23:52:14

      Thank you sooooo much sweety! Yes, I am sure there are people who either fail to express or are pretty coconutty if u know what I mean 😉
      I am so happy you loved it! It’s so encouraging to read such positive comments! Thanks again Anu.

      Reply

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